Couples Counseling
Couples counseling in Boston for driven, high-achieving partners
Strengthening relationships without sidelining careers
How we help
High-pressure careers complicate relationships. We focus on what's happening right now—stress points, patterns, and recurring conflicts—and use clear, honest communication to iterate toward healthier dynamics that withstand demanding schedules.
Who we help
You're both succeeding professionally. But your relationship is suffering. You barely see each other. When you do, you're irritable, distant, or rehashing the same arguments. The intimacy is gone. You're operating as business partners, not romantic partners. You wonder if this is just what ambitious couples have to accept—or if there's another way.
We work with dual-career couples and high-achieving partners facing:
- Communication that feels more like negotiation than connection—you solve logistical problems but never talk about what matters
- Recurring conflicts that loop endlessly—same trigger, same fight, no resolution, growing resentment
- Competing ambitions that create distance—one person's success feels like the other's sacrifice
- Trust erosion from a specific breach or accumulated neglect—wondering if you can rebuild what's been lost
- Decision paralysis about your future together—stay, leave, try harder, give up?
Our approach
Practical — Techniques you can use immediately.
Collaborative — We analyze, challenge, and problem-solve together.
Grounded in expertise — Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and other evidence-based methods tailored to both partners.
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FAQ
What types of relationship issues do you help with?
We work with couples facing a wide range of challenges, from communication breakdowns and trust issues to major life transitions and work-life balance struggles. Whether you're dealing with conflict patterns, feeling disconnected, or navigating career pressures that impact your relationship, we're here to help.
Do both partners need to attend every session?
While couples therapy is most effective when both partners participate, we understand that scheduling and commitment levels can vary. We work with whatever arrangement works best for your relationship, and individual sessions may be incorporated as needed.
How long does couples counseling typically take?
The length of couples therapy varies significantly based on your specific goals and challenges. Some couples see meaningful progress in a few months, while others benefit from longer-term support. We'll work together to determine what makes sense for your relationship.
What if my partner is reluctant to try therapy?
It's common for one partner to be more hesitant about therapy. We understand this dynamic and can help you navigate how to approach the conversation. Sometimes starting with individual sessions can help you develop strategies for encouraging your partner's participation.
Do you offer teletherapy for couples?
Yes, we offer virtual sessions for couples who prefer the convenience of meeting from home or have scheduling constraints. Many couples find teletherapy just as effective as in-person sessions, especially for communication-focused work.
What should we expect in our first session?
Your first session focuses on understanding your relationship dynamics, individual perspectives, and shared goals. We'll explore what brought you to therapy and begin mapping out how we can work together to strengthen your relationship. It's a collaborative conversation, not an evaluation.